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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • Serious question - you said “But that doesn’t mean I can be attracted to someone I know is trans”

    Why is this? Based on what you said wrote here you seemed to be able to be attracted to them before you know they are trans but the moment you find out that they are trans, you no longer are attracted to them.

    If you reduce someone down to their features and say I can’t date you bc you have XYZ features, but you are perfect in every other way and just what I am looking for in a woman, but I can’t date you bc of that. How is reducing someone to something that is out of their control not phobic?

    My other question is this - post op transwoman, would you still be attracted to her if you knew she had bottom surgery and no longer had a penis?


  • Bc OP reduced someone down to their anatomy. Literally perfect woman and exactly their type is right in front of them. Cute face, slim waist with a big behind… but the only reason you don’t want to date them is bc of their anatomy? That’s the part where it moves across the line.

    You have reduced this person down to what’s in their pants and not who they are, their personality, their hobbies, etc… you have reduced them to a feature of their body.

    Imagine if someone said I don’t want to date someone with a cleft lip bc if we have kids that could be passed down through genetics.

    It’s the same thing here.