• fosforus@sopuli.xyz
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    1 year ago

    This seems like it’s not a joke, so I’ll choose to take it seriously.

    Throw your fucking phone in the toilet if you spend 3 hours with it trying to “convince yourself” to do something.

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      1 year ago

      I think that’s a misunderstanding of how ADHD, and in fact mental illness in general, works. Perhaps for some people removing the distraction will work, but more often in my experience another will just fit in its place. The phone is not the problem, it is a symptom.

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        1 year ago

        Phones are a very powerful attention trap. I’d be curious to hear an argument of a more powerful and accessable one

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          The phone isn’t what causes this issue in people with adhd, I do it with or without a phone. You’re just misunderstanding how adhd works.

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            I’m aware how ADHD behaves, I have it. I’ve been medicated for years.

            It is obvious to me and many others who have it that things of great dopamine satisfaction are ESPECIALLY distracting. Cellphone distraction is a known attention sink and such things are even more powerful for folks with attention/focus issues.

            I guarantee any of us locked in a blank room and a sink full of dishes would be faster to complete the chore if we were without engrossing distraction.

            Those with ADHD have an even higher responsibility to themselves to remove distractions and keep a “clean” lifestyle. It’s a cop out to not acknowledge massive distraction triggers or traps.

            I’m not suggesting those struggling are lesser. Only that they may be not meeting their own self care needs, willfully or otherwise.

            • Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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              I agree on phone usage restriction apps. You can also extend the usage as a reward for achieving things which would work as an external motivation that ADHD people need. I also agree with other people that it won’t even be close to solving ADHD problems, people were just arguing with you about different thing because they thought that you have the same perception of ADHD as the top level comment.

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              1 year ago

              People are incredibly fast to claim that somebody doesn’t understand how ADHD or procrastination works, just because they said something they don’t quite agree with.

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                A lot of people seem to wear disorders like add/ADHD like an identity. At least online…

                Like, I’m not a lesser person for my disorder, but I HAVE a disorder. It’s my responsibility to myself to maximize my outcomes, and minimize the impacts.

                Being critical of what distracts me, or triggers a tangential behavior track is so important to my being successful. In the case of cell phones, that is a known trap for even non ADHD folks, so my sharing it as relevant here isn’t some wacko suggestion hah

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            1 year ago

            When there perfect fixes aren’t available (which is almost always), partial fixes are golden.