• Tropper@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Option 1 sounds like a boring hell and option 2 sounds like an active hell.

    I would pick 2. At least there would be some good and fun moments between the really bad ones. And sharing interests is an important part for me.

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      3 months ago

      Personally I think interests are vastly overrated. Relationships are not about whether you enjoy what you do together, but whether you enjoy doing it together. Part of the magic of a long-term relationship is developing those unexpected shared interests over time rather than going in from day one with the attitude of “I want to date myself”.